Believe me when I say I have some encounter on how to save my relationship. I had taken every thing for granted for so long that when I did finally recognize that points had gone pear shaped and that I required to do some thing very rapidly to save my relationship it was a very massive wake up call. It was a typical healthy relationship that had been happily going on for over five years but like all relationships we had began taking points for granted, and I believe both of us were guilty of this.

Then there was the usual power struggle where girlfriends had been advising things like "put him on short rations" and mates were saying "who wears the pants in the house?" We had been both finding all the wrong facts from people today who were busy with their own power struggles within their relationships. All bravado but none of these advice givers had been ever going to be around to face the music and the heartache that follows such stubborn resistance. Days became weeks became months and I could hardly function. I wasn't consuming, I was not sleeping properly and I was desperately depressed. Every body kept telling me that this was natural and that it would "take time".

Properly I didn't want to feel like this any longer and 1 day it lastly dawned on me that I wanted to get back together once again. I realized that I was properly and genuinely miserable and that all the guidance I was given did not take into account my feelings. It was time to see if this relationship, which meant so a lot to me, could be salvaged. I am genuinely happy to say that even though it was a lengthy hard road back for both of us, and against the wishes of some that we regarded as friends, we lastly did make it back. We are stronger for it now and happier than we have ever been. The most amazing factor for me has been that I no longer take anything for granted and appreciate every thing that is accomplished for me. I know I am getting the identical in return.

So if you are in the same position where you have to have to save your relationship, a relationship that is worth saving, then let your heart show you the way and not your stubborn and probably well meaning friends. Following all relationships are about companionship, enjoy and caring and not about who is suitable or who is superior. If there is one thing I have learned from trying to save my relationship it is to listen and have empathy. It's an intriguing quirk of nature that we are given two ears and 1 mouth - knowing this has served me well as I attempt to use them in the same ratio.


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Save My Relationship